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Welcome to Faith Radio online|Simply to Relax, ImFaith.
欢迎来到Faith轻松电台，我是Faith。
Do you condemn yourself for things which you did||or failed to do||in the past? Everyone does this atsome point. However, if you want to lead a successfuland productive life, it is imperative that yourelease the past and not blame yourself for events which have already transpired and whichcannot be changed.
你是不是为你过去做过的事，或失败的事而对自己耿耿于怀?每一个人都会在某种程度上有过这种历程。然而，假如你想要一种成功而积极的生活，掌握释怀过去，不要为已经发生且没办法改变的过去而责备自己，这一点是很必要的。
The successful person takes this approach: Learn from past mistakes and make adjustments infuture behavior. The strategy of berating yourself for past conduct solves nothing and onlyserves to lower your self|esteem. You create a vicious cycle where negative experiences andnegative feelings are reinforced, which leads to more negative outcomes and more negativefeelings.
大凡成功的人都会采取这种作法：从过去的错误中吸取经验教训，并为以后的行为作适合的调整。为过去的行为而责备我们的这种方法并不可以解决任何问题，只能挫败你的自尊心。你因此而制造了一个恶性循环，消积的历程和感受并第三被强化，同时致使了更多的恶性结果和消积的情感。
If you insist on dwelling in the past, I suggest that you focus on your past successes.Visualizing and thinking about past successes is an excellent way to build confidence and self|esteem. What you think about is what you become. Therefore, when you concentrate on yoursuccesses, you help to create future successes.
假如你坚持沉湎于过去，我建议你多想想你过去的成功。回忆过去的成功是重建信心和自尊的非常不错方法。你所想象的也就是你会最后成为的。因此，当你集中精力考虑成功时，你也正在创造以后的成功。
When you find yourself starting to dwell on past negative experiences, immediately halt andremind yourself: There is nothing I can do now which will change what happened. I learned avaluable lesson and will act in a more constructive manner next time. Regardless of whatyou have done||or failed to do||the only sane approach is to accept it and move forward.
当你发现自己开始沉湎于过去的消积历程时，立即停止，并提醒自己：我目前这么做并不可以改变已经发生了的过去。我从过去中收成了宝贵的经验，并将会以更积极地态度去面对生活。不管你曾做过什么，有过何失败，唯一理智的方法是同意你的过去，并积极前进。
This is Faith at Faith Radio online|Simply to Relax. The successful individual does not wasteprecious mental energy dwelling on past events which cannot be changed. Instead, he or sheuses past mistakes as learning experiences and springboards to future successes.
这里是Faith主持的Faith轻松电台。做一个成功的人，就不要浪费宝贵的精力对没办法改变的过去耿耿于怀。相反，大家应该视过去为一种学习心得，和迈向将来成功的跳板。
